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Clownpuncher21 Asked March 3, 2024

Is that even legal, my uncles trying to have me arrested and everything to miss court and he was unsuccessful, they've invaded my home for 12 days?

How do I get a guardianship revoked given to my grandmothers son and daughter she wanted me to be her POA but before i even got our attorney here for the paperwork we had a court notice and courtdate i went without an attorney an they didnt let her in the courtroom they kept her in a room next door that cant be legal she can speak for herself she wasnt aloud an she was mad an my uncles had her farm property reassessed an taken her name off it shes aware an wants her assets back an a will made after i am made her rightful guardian like she had paperwork in her pocket to file the day of court when they kept her out of the room

JoAnn29 Mar 3, 2024
From what I understand, Grandmom, Dementia or not, is to be present at the hearing. If she wasn't allowed to be, her rights have been violated.

So sorry, but we are lay people. You need to get a lawyer. A lawyer will be the only person who can look at everything and figure it all out.

AlvaDeer Mar 3, 2024
I am sorry.
You have written us before regarding this complicated legal and familial family.
We on this Forum cannot help you and your story makes no sense whatsoever.

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Geaton777 Mar 3, 2024
We aren't lawyers so there's nothing we can help you with. If you're certain of what you described, you're only recourse is to hire your own attorney.

If guardianship was granted to your Uncles, then the judge (who has no personal interest in the outcome) thought it was the best decision. FYI no one can take her name off the property title without her consent. The guardians now will decide what to do with the property: perhaps sell it to pay for her future care. If she created a legal Will, then when she passes the Executor of the Will will distribute the assets as they are stated in it. If she promised you something verbally, but it's not in the Will, then it won't happen. If she doesn't have any assets left because they were used to pay for her care, then it won't matter what's in the Will if there's nothing left to distribute.

If your Grandma now has dementia then what she is telling you is probably not accurate. Paranoia is a feature of dementia so she might be having delusions of people taking advantage of her.

It seems like the Uncles felt you were not an appropriate caregiver for her and that's why they pursued guardianship. Or, her cognitive state is bad enough that she can no longer legally assign a PoA. Without a PoA her family can't help her get the appropriate care and also get her to pay for it.

We can't take sides with you, we only know one side of this story. I wish you peace in your heart as you go through this changeover.

Southernwaver Mar 3, 2024
Does she have dementia?

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