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vanessa1214 Asked March 19, 2024

POA in IL.

Hi you guys. Thank you each and every one of you for the sincere advice. I've already taken the role as the POA for the past year, just not the actual form until next week. Unfortunately, there is no family so I am honored to be in this position. Only GOD knows why we cross each other's path. I am so sorry that some of you had experiences that left unpleasant memories. Dementia I enjoy best, however, that is not the case with my friend now. I feel that any time you are responsible for a human beings well being it is a difficult emotion at times. Again, Thank you all from the bottom of my heart for being supportive. I will keep you posted.

NeedHelpWithMom Mar 20, 2024
After reading your profile I feel that you are one of those rare individuals who truly feels that caregiving for others is a calling.

You’re certainly a professional in this field with lots of experience. The person who you are caring for is very fortunate to have someone who is willing to give your all in caring for them.

As long as you are not burdened with these additional responsibilities then you should do whatever you feel is best.

Wishing you all the best as you continue on your caregiving journey.

Geaton777 Mar 19, 2024
"I've already taken the role as the POA for the past year, just not the actual form until next week."

What happened is that you took on the responsibility in the last year but had no legal power. Good thing your charge had capacity that whole year and didn't need a legal medical rep because it would not have been you. And still not until your fried legalizes the final PoA doc next week. Just clarifying so that others can learn from your experience.

Does your friend have a FPoA assigned? Friend at some point will need this person to manage and make decisions and pay for medical needs that you deem necessary. They go hand-in-hand.

Thank you for posting an update.

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