Perhaps this site can provide a simple list of resources for those placed in "caregiver" role. After reading pages /comments/pleas on this site I see that so many are placed in this role not by choice but by circumstances. Many cannot afford assistance or alternatives for this 24/7 role. Perhaps there needs to be a documentary and or representation for this group.
www.va.gov/COMMUNITYCARE/programs/caregiver/index.asp
Note in the second paragraph that the VA assists with health care for eligible primary caregivers, in the absence of other health care plans the caregiver might have.
You're right that circumstance plays a role in being a caregiver.
What did you specifically have in mind? Online resources, group resources, agencies? I'm interested, and have thought of trying to start a support group in my area, but again, there's that pesky issue of taking time to do get a group started.
I did learn earlier this year that the VA offers Caregiver Support. I received some information on it from the VA. If I recall, it was primarily podcasts, or some type of interactive podcast, which didn't really appeal to me.
I'd like to read more about your own experiences and suggestions. I think time and mobility would be key factors for any type of get-together to share experiences and console other caregivers. That's probably why forums work well; we can stop by at our convenience, w/o getting dressed, going out (especially in inclement weather).