I work 33 hrs besides this. Mom has unstable gait and dementia. We've been doing this for almost a year now and I can't do this any longer but he won't take 'I can't'. He is retired and refuses home health aides and daycare. She can't afford long term nursing care. What can I do?
Kevin, in the post that FF referenced, there were 6 answers as well as questions on what your specific situation and concerns were. They were never answered; you never posted back.
It's hard to provide succinct and directed answers when we don't get feedback we need from the original poster.