He is in his last stages of this horrible disease. A few months ago, he has developed anger issues with the staff, and other patients. This memory care unit wants him out of there, and his advocate for the State has found him a place that will accept him, but it an hour and two away from any of his siblings. Now that he is in his last stages, being lethargic, and they cannot find out what is wrong with him, in that respect, they still want him moved. The state is telling me that we have to move him on Sunday no matter what. Is this legal, and what would happen if we just dont move him?
You say that his Advocate by the state found this new place. Is the Advocate his Court Appointed Guardian? If so, then the Guardian is in charge of making decisions about his care. I'd explore who is actually in charge of making the decisions.
Even though it's a couple hours away, his siblings can still visit. His care has to the be most important consideration. I can't imagine wanting my loved one to stay in a place who tells me they are not able to handle him.
As for you not moving him, not sure what would happen, he could be given to you for his care.
So yes, in this case then can evict him, and send him to a facility that can handle his behavior for the safety of everyone. This may be a good thing, as this new facility may have a geriatric psychiatrist on staff that can adjust his medications and make him more comfortable and less anxious/angry.
Angel