Everywhere I check they all have waiting list, and I am getting big afraid of lifting mom due to my pregnancy. My mom has been very selfish lately she is so needy. I was told to take her to the hospital she will find a bed quicker. I asked her case mgmt he said if they are full the hospital will discharge her back home. I am so overwhelming with this whole process. I did not know it was that hard finding one ltc bed.
The downside to that is that it may not be a NH that is close to you or one you would have picked yourself.
And you would also have to get your mother admitted to the hospital first. No small feat but easier for elderly people.