i have been dealing with verbal and mental abuse for over 20 years
from my husbands children,they are 49,52 and 57 years of age,
they try to control and guilt me into thinking I am a bad caregiver to my husband.
They offer no financial or physical assistance..just hateful insults,
I am in religious consuling with our priest, and trying to be kind while
still standing up to their narracists personality. All three have been treated in patient during their teens for this disorder. The biological mother gave up
on all of them and caused a sorrow-filled divorce in the late 1970's.
I am slowly detaching myself from the hatred.
Am I alone in this situation. I am 19 years younger then my husband..around
their ages.
How capable is your husband mentally? Is there a reason that he is avoiding confronting his children about the way they treat you? What does he think you should do about the situation?