My mother is 73 and has a husband 78 that just had a stroke and massive heart attack and is paralyzed from what I have been told. We have been estranged for personal reasons for 3 years. She is also trying to raise my sister's children 8 and 5.
Got any suggestions.
She may be resistant to anyone trying to help, so be prepared for that too. I am sure that someone else will chime in and give you more knowledgeable advice.