Here's the story. My sister is the executor of our Mom's estate. There is a lot of money involved. Sister won't give me an accounting of where the money is, where it went or anything. I got some inheritance but I feel there should be more that is not accounted for. I called the brokerage firm where the money was and was told to contact my sis. If I ask sis for an accounting she blows up and gets angry, very angry. About 15, 000 is not accounted for. And she gets horribly angry if I ask about it. I have an appt with the free lawyer in town but not until mid April. What should I do? I do mean Angry!
It also occurs to me that all the beneficiaries get a copy of the final accounting of assets. Did that not happen in your case, brandywine?
Who had access to your mothers money prior to her passing away?
It is extremely difficult when you're dealing with someone who can't give a civil answer to a reasonable question.
Have you tried asking her what her objection is to your asking?