My uncle recently broke his hip. He has Parkinson’s and dementia. He has a caretaker and family to assist him, he needs a walker and assistance to walk. However, he does not listen and keeps trying to get up and walk unattended and tries to get up at night. Any suggestions on how to keep him from getting up?
I used a motion sensor in the bedroom, and carried the receiver with me. If my husband started to get up I would hear the buzz. It took a bit of experimenting to learn where to aim it so it wouldn't pick up movement within the bed, but then it worked well. Also I helped him use a urinal bottle rather than having him walk to the bathroom.
Can he safely stand on his own? Having the walker right next to where he is seated may help him remember that he needs help. Or not. Sigh. His brain is broken.
No amount of reasoning is going to change things. Constant supervision may be necessary. Can his caregiver stay near him most of the time? Can a family member take over when the caregiver takes breaks, goes to the bathroom, etc?
With the dementia, maybe your Uncle is at a stage where he doesn't remember he can walk. That happened to my own Mom, and she couldn't help it, her brain wasn't communicating right, and sadly there is nothing one can do to correct that brain communication.
I bet your Uncle is a two person lift, so are there two people with him during the sleeping hours? As Ahmijoy had mentioned above, it might be time for the family to think about placing the Uncle in a continuing care facility.
Have you considered a commode positioned next to his bed, lid up? Maybe he'll see that and won't feel the nee to walk to the bathroom.
You have to have someone who is willing to perform this task. You won't get it in a care facility.
I'd try to figure out if he is having trouble sleeping. If so, I'd discuss a sleep aid with his doctor. Often people who have dementia suffer with sleep disorders. If he is resting better, he may not be as inclined to roam.
Also, is he able to wear depends? If he is getting up because he's wet, I'd try to fix it so he stays dry with depends and pads.
And, we started using a bed alarm that fits on the mattress. It alerts when she gets up, so the caretaker can go to her. They have to be fast though. If he's at home, it might pay to have a person in the same room to attend to him as soon as he gets up and the alarm goes off.
It can be very frustrating to keep people from falling, regardless of where they are. I hope some of the tips help some.
I bought a lift chair a few weeks ago because lifting her was taking a toll on me. I hadn't really worried about her using it because she forgets it's a lift chair most of the time, and she doesn't know how to use the remote. (Macular degeneration makes her unable to see the button diagrams)
Last week when I was in my bedroom, she apparently needed to use the bathroom. She forgets that she needs help too. Well I guess she saw the remote sitting there and kept pushing buttons until she got up. Her walker was right there, but she still fell after a few steps. She got some bruises and is still hurting. I feel so bad for her. Anyway, now I've started hiding the remote. I feel bad doing that, but I can't be in there every minute of the day.
I'm not sure why I felt the need to ramble about my own experience. We obviously don't have it figured out.
I did put a baby monitor in her room and I'm a light sleeper, so I can hear if she's moving around in there. I love the idea of the motion detector that a few people mentioned above!
I could use that for her bedroom because she sleeps with her door closed. We have pets, so it wouldn't work in the living room.
Best of luck to you.
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