I have been with her for 5 years. How do explain to her that I am not allowed she understands every thing except for the fact that they won't let her go any more .It kills me to see her beg me to take her the family goes and tells the church she is fixing to die(they hope) and they ask me how she is and she's fine eats no heart problems has o2 and uses a walker please help me ease her sadness church is all she has done all her life
At the small church I attend, a long-time member became disruptive as she went into her 90s. She would "whisper" to the person sitting next to her, only it wasn't a "whisper." One time when she was "whispering" the speaker actually stopped his presentation and gently called out to her by name, asking if there was something she wished to share with the congregation. She was shocked that anyone but the person she was talking to had heard her.
As others have said, whatever the situation is with your 93-year-old, the church should be able to make some accommodation to have the pastor and others of the congregation periodically visit her in the home. And Veronica91's ideas of watching services on TV and reading the Bible together would be easy to do, if her family has no objections.