My friend does not want a feeding tube and has a severe hiatal hernia. I need to know the safest way to allow her to eat as she always has but still keep the safety in mind. Surgery is too risky, probably would not survive the operation but is adamant that she does not want a feeding tube. She aspirates stuff in the lungs and it seems to lead to bouts of pneumonia. we just need to know how to help her eat more safely without any more surgical intervention
I am wondering if she has other health issues. How old is she? Why was a liquid diet recommended? And was it a thickened liquid diet?
Keep in mind that it is possible to aspirate on any diet -- even with a feeding tube one may aspirate saliva. So the goal is only to reduce the risks. One way to reduce the risk is to sit up perfectly straight when eating. Slumped on pillows or leaning back in a recliner increases risk. Swallowing twice after each bite helps (so food is completely cleared before the next bite.) That is all I can remember from when my husband refused a feeding tube, but Google how to avoid food aspiration for other tips.
Your friend is lucky to have you for support and encouragement.