I know he will have to go thru an interview to be accepted, however, he hates answering questions and that they would think he is stupid. Do I just wait for the next stage when he has lost all care of where he goes? Should I go to talk with the center, alone, to see what they recommend? I really need some space before I totally burnout.
Godsend at the right time. She participated there for 18 mos. don't wait, if he still has some cognitive moments he will enjoy their activities, etc. lovingly explain to him that you want him to take a break from you....to have time with others in a safe environment that will help him spend an enjoyable day. Make it all positive. Then also get involved. Get to know the staff, they have a hard job. Get to know the routines, how can you share I some group time. I loved mornings dropping off my mom and greeting the early bird group. Getting them engaged to start the day. I miss the staff & caring "members" of the "club". Mom has declined and needed more professional care than I could give. I started this journey with her 9 yrs ago and we are still together thru the changes, but now I have help & support to help me be/get strong as we move forward on this journey. Important advice......"if the caregiver does not stay well (physically, mentally, emotionally) how/who will be there to caregive for the loved one." Good luck!