I’m wondering what other members hope (or plan) to do with their lives after caregiving ends.
My 10-year marathon of being the primary caregiver for my mother ended at the end of 2024.
Caregiving changed me—I am not the same person who I was 10 years ago.
I am working hard to take my life back these days. I have listed my home, and am hoping to return to my former city where I was happier (before I moved, and fell into caregiving here).
I’m still exhausted (I can safely admit that in this forum because I know that everyone understands). I’m doing it, anyway. I have to do it, or quit.
Sleep
Sleep
More Sleep.
Sleep through the night.
Sleep peacefully again .
See friends again .
Read books again .
No more worries about a senior running out of money for care .
It would also be nice to have peace of mind around money. LTC is expensive as many of us are aware.
I'm thinking, of some kind of class, maybe even knitting classes, or something at are local library, and/or some sort of volunteer work. There is a thrift store, that sells used clothes really cheap and then the money goes back to the community. I just think it is such a great program
Oh my gosh, so so much has changed for me! Way to much to even discuss at this point.
Thanks for asking Danielle! 💖💖