My husband is disabled suffers with a mental inpairment and I have a 25 year old special needs daughter, my problem lays with my husband.
His oldest sister pushed us into marrying she is power of attorney a very nasty person I just do not know what my husband can do and cannot do. Everything falls on me housework etc I see him as lazy which he was babied also.
This is taking a toll on my health I feel also I do have my daughter in a day support program 5 days a week.
My husband is bedridden and I do everything for him but feed him. I also take care of our finances and the house and laundry. But not everyone is cut out to be a caregiver.
Are you and your daughter being held captive? Contact Legal Aid if you have no money and get out. File for food stamps, find low-income housing and see if your daughter is entitled to any aid. Leave your husband and his sister to each other.
Is your daughter a minor? Is your husband her father? Was he competent when he appointed sister POA? Is it a Durable POA? Is husband competent now? Can he change the POA? Can you arrange for help to come in to help with husband without his sister's consent? There are just so many questions that come into play.