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It's often much more overwhelming for the caregiver. Someone with OCPD can be extremely abusive, controlling and manipulative - saying or doing ANYTHING at all, in order to control everything and everyone in their lives. It's especially bad if they are a parent or older sibling.
The same way you deal with anyone who has Obsessive-Compulsive.......it's a condition that can be treated with PSYCOTHERAPY and some medication. It's not fatal, and it's not overwhelming unless you let it get to you. P.S. Her age is not a factor.
What medicine is she taking for her OCPD and depression? Is she being seen on a regular basis by a competent psychiatrist who is kept informed about how her medications are doing? Is she seeing a therapist?
Has the doctor been willing to talk with you to share what you need to know? Is there a Mental Health Association in your county and a NAMI, National Alliance on Mental Illness, in your county or state? If so they will have some information to help you. Anytime a family member is in a close relationship like you are with another family who has a personality disorder, it is strongly adviced that a person such as yourself have a therapist to help you survive and have some tools to deal with the challenges of all this.
No Mom has Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder which is quite a different thing than COPD. Your comment about your father being fragile, applies to mom too. As it stands she uses oxygen around the clock, she tires easily and sleeps a lot. We have hopes for her becoming less symptomatic as far as CHF goes, but the real problem is the OCPD and the associated depression that goes with it. If she was not afflicted by OCPD and depression, I think she would adjust to the constraints of CHF without much trouble...but that is wishing for something that just isnt so. Anyway, I appreciate your remarks. I wish you luck with your father.
My father has COPD. He was officially diagnosed last year even though he's been dealing with asthma for years. Just like Congestive Heart Failure and other diseases that are technically "fatal", COPD can be managed and your mom can live the rest of her days as comfortable as possible. Make sure you talk to her doctor and see what treatments are available for your mom. Our dad uses Advair, a Nebulizer and is on oxygen therapy ( he also has Congestive Heart Failure).
He's very fragile and can get sick really easily so our main goal is to make sure his lungs are as healthy as possible. He does breathing exercises, takes his meds and on occasion he needs prednisone to open up his airways....
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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P.S. Her age is not a factor.
What medicine is she taking for her OCPD and depression? Is she being seen on a regular basis by a competent psychiatrist who is kept informed about how her medications are doing? Is she seeing a therapist?
Has the doctor been willing to talk with you to share what you need to know? Is there a Mental Health Association in your county and a NAMI, National Alliance on Mental Illness, in your county or state? If so they will have some information to help you. Anytime a family member is in a close relationship like you are with another family who has a personality disorder, it is strongly adviced that a person such as yourself have a therapist to help you survive and have some tools to deal with the challenges of all this.
No Mom has Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder which is quite a different thing than COPD. Your comment about your father being fragile, applies to mom too. As it stands she uses oxygen around the clock, she tires easily and sleeps a lot. We have hopes for her becoming less symptomatic as far as CHF goes, but the real problem is the OCPD and the associated depression that goes with it. If she was not afflicted by OCPD and depression, I think she would adjust to the constraints of CHF without much trouble...but that is wishing for something that just isnt so. Anyway, I appreciate your remarks. I wish you luck with your father.
Tom
He's very fragile and can get sick really easily so our main goal is to make sure his lungs are as healthy as possible. He does breathing exercises, takes his meds and on occasion he needs prednisone to open up his airways....