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I can't find where my mom is living at cause my brother is being devious with me

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How do I find my mom in assisted living in ny
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AlvaDeer Oct 2023
You have been asking us this for months, N. Has anything we suggested been tried? What HAVE you tried?

I wish I could come up with something other than what we have come up with so far, but I think we know about as much as you do. So sorry for this.
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I am so sorry, but this is a question that would be hard for us to answer. You will just need to do some detective work. You will need a list of all the ALs in Queens. Then you start calling asking if you can have the room# (for only ur mothers name) you want to send her a card. Do not identify yourself as her child. Just a friend wanting to send a card. When they say no one by that name lives there, u say sorry but u thought this was the name u were given. Then go on to the next. She is probably near to brother so start with those.

Check the internet by her name and her last address. Sometimes you will find every address she lived under including her AL if brother did a change of address. For tax purposes he needs to.

Call the Post Office and see if a change of address has been put thru. Send a card to the last address and see if it comes back with the new address on it.
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How do I find my mom in assisted living place in queens
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Call all the local ones and ask for her.
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Norbert. This is your third time asking this question on the Forum. What methods suggested to you by us have you tried that have not worked?
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I really can't find out where my mom is living at please help me find her she is somewhere in queens
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BurntCaregiver Sep 2023
How about asking your other family members where she is? Or calling some of her friends?
If that fails hire a private investigator.
No one here can help you find where your mother is since this forum is a support group for caregivers and not a detective agency.
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