My dad is 96 years old and basically chair-bound because of degenerative disk disease. I can manage him in the house and transition him to the bathroom, bed, etc., but I cannot get him into or out of the car without some major obstacles. He lives with me, but it is just the 2 of us most of the time. I've tried a Hoya-like lift, but it doesn't work well for us. I have a "Slide-n-Ride" which is manageable, but still very difficult. I've tried to move him like the videos online that show proper technique, but he weighs about 170 lbs., and I can't physically move him. I use a slide sheet, and I've tried a transfer board, but nothing works well. I just want him to be able to get out of the house and see people and scenery. He's always been very social, but his poor physical condition is affecting his mood and frame of mind, and he needs to get out a little. Has anyone tried anything that works for them? Surely I'm not the only one with this issue. Are there resources available?
The risk of you or Dad getting hurt is far to great to get him into your car.
On the the other hand, you might spring for a wheelchair accessible taxi to drive him by family and friends’ homes, letting them know ahead of time that he’ll be driving by, and they could come to the curb and each tell him a knock knock joke. Maybe drive by as his church is dismissing, (if they are meeting in person now) letting the congregation know he’s coming through the parking lot and the groups can wave and wish him well.
You are a sweet daughter to try and find ways to bring your father joy. God bless you.
Hope you find a good solution.
https://www.takealonglifts.com/
http://www.blvd.com/vehicle-mobility-transfer-seats/milford-person-lift
http://accessunlimited.com/html/multi-lift-car.html
I used a contractor garbage bag with the bottom cut to easily move my husband in the car. He would sit on the edge of the seat and I would swing his legs into the car and the bag would slide on itself (very much like using a draw sheet) and it would be easy to position him. (my Husband was 6'4 and over 200 pounds and I could slide him using the heavy duty garbage bag)
But, and this is important...SAFETY if it is no longer safe for you to try to get him in and out of a car or if it is no longer safe for him to try to get in and out of a car than the rides need to stop.
Get a medical transport.
Most Public Transportation services also have Handicap vans or small buses that will pick up passengers and take them to whatever destination and they will return to take you home.. Some require 24 hour notice.
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If the answer is 'yes', that he does want to go out in the car, then get a physical therapist involved by coming into your home and showing you precisely how to do it safely.
If the answer is 'no', that he does not want to go out in the car, then leave him alone & honor his wishes, as I did with my father.
Good luck!
One was called a turney. I have no information on the cost. Don't confuse this to the seat for the driver which will do similar functions.
The one I am talking about is for the passenger side.
Good luck.
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