I’m in Florida and my mom was placed by my step dad in a facility that is known for neglect. How do I ask for proof of life? I’ve got a bad feeling about whether or not she is alive. Step dad is non-communicative and moved her, then didn’t tell family members til weeks later. I want proof that she is still alive but she can’t communicate. The facility has not been cooperative until they got word I contacted the state. I’m 1500 miles away, how do I get proof of her status?
I think a wellness check is a good idea though.
I hope you get some answers!
Did Step-Dad tell you that your Mom was in the hospital first? If Mom was in the hospital first, then she was discharged to a nursing home. Your Step-Dad had no choice where Mom would go, the hospital sends the patient to the first available bed.
The nursing home wouldn't be cooperative since your name isn't on the HIPAA form. A HIPAA form has to do with privacy, and no one, not even hospitals, can give out information.
Go to the nursing home and tell them you just flew in from out of State, and would like to visit your Mom. Be very calm when talking to the Staff at the nursing home, even if they tell you they can't give out any information whether Mom is there or not. Ask to talk to a Case Working and ask for his/her help.