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Here is what I do with my mother who has advanced Dementia and Anxiety - I just go along or agree with whatever the crazy issues are unless she is about to physically harm herself. I play along with her for a short while and then redirect her to something else. Most of time it works sometimes I have to be very creative but whatever works and who cares if she think the sky is purple polka dotted? Also Anxiety meds helped her a lot.
Ebenhausen, is your mom under the care of a geriatric doctor? They may have ideas to help reduce her anxiety.
My granny would hide her stuff and then accuse her daughter of stealing from her. She couldn't help that she didn't know what was going on and it was difficult and sad. My step mom would just ask her to help her look for whatever was missing and tune out the accusation. It was not easy for her at first but, she did eventually come to terms with the fact that granny wasn't living in the same reality as the rest of us.
There were many tears as she dealt with losing her mom one brain cell at a time.
Great big warm hug! Dementia just stinks and is so hard to deal with.
Ebenhausen, Welcome to forum. Looks like you are a newcomer. I have many happy memories of antiquing with my bro in Carlsbad. It will help us enormously if you fill in your profile. Looks like you are caring for your Mom. The more information we have the more we can give you some help from our experiences. We need more information on your question. After you fill in the title of the question there is a whole area in which you can elaborate on what is going on. So what is going on? How old is Mom? Is she in your care? Does she live with you, or do you live with her? Does she have a diagnosis of Dementia and if so, for how long. Did these paranoid delusions come on quickly, or have they been worsening over time? Does your Mom have a regular MD or specialist, and have these symptoms been reported? What has been tried that isn't working? Thanks for more info, and, again, welcome.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
My granny would hide her stuff and then accuse her daughter of stealing from her. She couldn't help that she didn't know what was going on and it was difficult and sad. My step mom would just ask her to help her look for whatever was missing and tune out the accusation. It was not easy for her at first but, she did eventually come to terms with the fact that granny wasn't living in the same reality as the rest of us.
There were many tears as she dealt with losing her mom one brain cell at a time.
Great big warm hug! Dementia just stinks and is so hard to deal with.
It will help us enormously if you fill in your profile. Looks like you are caring for your Mom. The more information we have the more we can give you some help from our experiences. We need more information on your question. After you fill in the title of the question there is a whole area in which you can elaborate on what is going on.
So what is going on? How old is Mom? Is she in your care? Does she live with you, or do you live with her? Does she have a diagnosis of Dementia and if so, for how long. Did these paranoid delusions come on quickly, or have they been worsening over time?
Does your Mom have a regular MD or specialist, and have these symptoms been reported? What has been tried that isn't working?
Thanks for more info, and, again, welcome.