He lives with us. He is 84 widowed for 4 years, met her at church, 3x divorced. Has spent over 500K on this woman in the last year. Home, trips, credit card, etc. He and my husband have had several arguments haven't spoken in a month. He knows it's not appropriate, doesn't care. Doesn't care he is burning through his life savings. His expectation is we will pickup the pieces if he doesn't have any money. Our retirement plan did not included supporting 84 year old fool and his girl friend.
I would be in favor of eviction. He clearly can support himself.
Me too! Smart answer.
Set up a come-to-Jesus meeting at your house between Ms. Gold Digger & Daddy right away. Let them BOTH know that since Daddy bought her a house, he has to move in with her immediately, so she can begin caring for him in their new place! His money will be running out shortly and the 6K per month she's blowing on crapola needs to be spent on HIS care now, that's just how it goes. She will proceed to dump him in short order and you can then SELL the house he bought her, recoup some of that wasted $$$$, and get the situation back under control!
That's what I'd do, if it were me, because he's thinking with his small head now & past the point of no return. Men. Can't live with 'em, can't shoot 'em. But you CAN get rid of their gold-diggin' girlfriends if you play your cards right!
Best of luck!!!
Time to grow up son, get out! And have that whore earn that money.
My dad lost every penny in a similar situation, one difference being that I absolutely refused to help him in any way as long as she benefited one penny.
He was mad as a wet hen, tough, because I guarantee it was nothing compared to how I felt about paying for his whore.
Dirty old men
Too funny 😂!!! I love your wicked sense of humor.
The first time we heard my FIL call her by the pet name he called my sweet MIL, we wanted to throw up.
My FIL was down right cheap before being with her. Didn’t spend a penny more than he had to. She came along and he emptied his pockets.
MIL didn’t even have a housekeeper when she was dying from non Hodgkin’s lymphoma. He was too cheap! I cleaned for her. But he hired a housekeeper for her. Sickening!
Oh wait, he was very frugal with grocery shopping. She comes along and buying organic everything. That is, produce for salad, she made it clear that she wasn’t going to cook. They ate out all the time.
It’s so interesting to see a true character change in some men when this happens after being with women like this.
Thank God he saved money for assisted living because he sure as hell isn’t going to be staying with us.
We have my mom living here now. One parent is enough. Plus mom has always been in our lives. She is deserving.
He checked out of our lives to be with her. Glad he found a place to live. If money runs out at the ALF, oh well...My husband already said that he would not be willing to take him in even if my mom wasn’t here.
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