Everyone says oh you're an angel for taking in your husbands aunt (shes87 dementia, misc problems) but I feel like s**t because I don't like her - how do I cope? My husband loves her and I agreed to let her live here - she follows me everywhere and talks nonstop repeating the same things over and over how do I cope? I know it is wrong to ignore her but it's my only coping mechanism right now - any thoughts?