Diagnosed 9 yrs ago:
He wears pull up depends and I have him in sweat pants however he still goes into bathroom and occasionally hits the toilet but mostly gets it all over and sometimes pees in shower, garbage can, laundry basket etc etc
Doesn’t flush or wipe either
Had diarrhea but started giving him medicine which stopped that issue.
Sometimes I’m at wits end! Married 57 years in June
I agree with others, it's time to think about putting him somewhere where they can care for these issues professionally.
Do you have any help?
Check with Medicaid in ur county. Each situation is different.