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Everytime it's brought up my mother gets all panicked. She acts like she'll get in trouble if she changes it. My aunt LITERALLY thinks because she has POA what she says goes?... Is there anything I can do?
Yes, Aunt is POA, then let her deal with Mom. Your husband needing care was your excuse not to care for Mom. Now Aunt wants to call the shots, let her.
Get together a list of resources in your County. Our Office of Aging has a nice booklet. Leave a number for Social Services. If Mom is low income with no assets, she maybe able to get "in home" help. You have "depression and other problems" on your profile as her health problem. She is 64? Not that old. Are u sure by being there you aren't disabling her. Like doing things she can do for herself.
You do not need to put up with the abuse or a controlling Aunt. Your responsibility is to your husband. If when you get home, Mom is not being properly taken care of, call Adult Protection Services to investigate. If need be, let them take over Moms care. Meaning the State will become her guardian. Things will get done faster if they are doing it.
Unless your mom is not cognizant she can appoint anyone she wishes. And POA is not enacted until the person can no longer make decisions for themselves and it does not sound like your mother is in that position. Go home to your husband. Let your mother and her sister deal with this themselves. WALK AWAY..actually I would run from this entanglement.
"Im married been with husband who has stage 4 cancer for 19 years. An have had to recently move 4 hours away from him to live with and take care of UNGRATEFUL NARCISSISTIC LIFE LONG ABUSIVE MOTHER"
Your mom is only 64 years old.
I agree with BarbBrooklyn. Go home to your sick husband. He is the priority over your mother. Also, consider getting counseling for yourself since it appears you may have an unhealthy, co-dependent relationship with your mother.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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Get together a list of resources in your County. Our Office of Aging has a nice booklet. Leave a number for Social Services. If Mom is low income with no assets, she maybe able to get "in home" help. You have "depression and other problems" on your profile as her health problem. She is 64? Not that old. Are u sure by being there you aren't disabling her. Like doing things she can do for herself.
You do not need to put up with the abuse or a controlling Aunt. Your responsibility is to your husband. If when you get home, Mom is not being properly taken care of, call Adult Protection Services to investigate. If need be, let them take over Moms care. Meaning the State will become her guardian. Things will get done faster if they are doing it.
Go home to your husband. Let your mother and her sister deal with this themselves.
WALK AWAY..actually I would run from this entanglement.
"Im married been with husband who has stage 4 cancer for 19 years.
An have had to recently move 4 hours away from him to live with and take care of UNGRATEFUL NARCISSISTIC LIFE LONG ABUSIVE MOTHER"
Your mom is only 64 years old.
I agree with BarbBrooklyn. Go home to your sick husband. He is the priority over your mother. Also, consider getting counseling for yourself since it appears you may have an unhealthy, co-dependent relationship with your mother.
worthwhile endeavor. to care for a narcissist who is only 66 is not a worthwhile endeavor.