I care for my 91 yr. old invalid mom 24/7, but my siblings do not think I should have any say so concerning their health care. I am not power of attorney, health care surrogate, and my name is not on their bank account. My older brothers have all the power and I do all the work. Is this fair?
Is there any way that you can talk with your brothers and your mom to have this situation rectified in your favour?
to laugh.
Is your mother of sound mind to understand what is going on? Would she be willing to reverse her previous agreement for your older brothers to have POA? Have you seen the actual written POA?