Mom doesn’t want to come to my house, doesn’t get along with husband. Her facility is one of the better ones, but she still feels like she’s in jail. When she had to go to hospital no one could go when she was released back to ALF. I’m at a crossroads here, she can not manage her own meds. She has had 4 major falls and now on a walker but otherwise the meds are the issue. Dementia is mild but this quarantine has def affected her. I’m her only child and I do window visits but it’s horrible still.
She wants me to buy her a house and make sure to put it in her name!! Help!
Bringing him home would have introduced all sorts of other dynamics which would have made life unbearable, especially when you have no end in sight. Once she comes back to your home she may not be able to return to the ALF for an extended period. You will have no idea when that is and I imagine you will need to continue paying her ALF expenses.
And buying her a house? What is that even about? Just don't even entertain that idea. She certainly can't live on her own, especially now.
thank you for your response.