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My mother in law had a stroke back in 2017, which left her speech and mind a bit jumbled.My brother and sister in laws decided to put a POA in place without telling my husband, as there's 3 siblings. My mother in law always said to us she didn't want either of the 2 dealing with her finances as she didn't trust them. One stays in Scotland and the other in England. He also has his name on her bank account too and a card of his own. He doesn't work, he has mental health issues too and the sister has alcohol issues. Can my husband do a separate POA for his mother or does she have to cancel the one in place already ?We just found out last night his mother is in the hospital through the brothers ex wife, as he blocked us from contacting him. Is there anything we/i can do to protect our mother/in law ? Thankyou in advance.

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Do consider an attorney consult for your own country. I don't know any of us on Forum from Scotland, though we do have people writing from Italy, from Australia. I want to wish you good luck. Much depends on you MIL mentation/competency if indications in Scotland are at all like the US. The work should be done by a qualified solicitor, and guardianship may be required. It is a shame that MIL did not take care of "business" given she already had fears of what might happen here. Good luck. Hope you'll update us.
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In the US, if the person has been declared incompetent to make informed decisions, no POA can be done. The person has to understand what a POA entails. You can get a POA unless your assigned. It needs to be witnessed and signed in frontbof a notary.

If your MIL did not want these two children to have control then she should have done a POA years ago to protect herself. Ifvshe did assign the POA she can unassign. Here, it just takes a new POA saying "all other POAs are revoked".
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I imagine that regardless of which country a person lives in it's almost always going to be more practical to go with the family members who are actually present rather than those who live far away, and if you need to petition for a change of guardianship the courts are apt to feel the same way.
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In the US only the principal, your MIL, can assign a POA for herself. So she would have had to give the POA authority to the siblings. Here, as long as she is competent enough to know what she is doing, she can change the POA to anyone she chooses.
No, the POA is not obliged to notify the siblings of anything.
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