My mother had her second severe stroke and is living with us. She keeps talking about wanting to go home but she can't take care of herself. I have mixed feelings about taking her to her house where she can see it's okay. My son checks on it daily and takes care of the plants, etc.
If she has cognitive problems, that complicates things, I think. Can she distinguish between visiting the house and moving back home?
You say she cannot take care of herself. Could she live in her house if she has sufficient support services? Would she prefer that? Is she likely to recover at least some of her strength and abilities?