Both my parents r with hospice, they moved in with me and my husband and I have been taking care of them.we had to hire help to help us,because it became to hard to do ourself. Now my brother is saying he is going to sue us when they pass away for spending all their money..should we get a lawyer.
I agree with Jeanne, if they hire an attorney, then you must.
If you have spend your parents money on their care, and room and board, hey, no problem (except documenting it, which could be a pain.)
If your brother claims you took fabulous vacations and just bought a new car with your parents' money, that may be a tougher fight.
Good luck!