Mom's situation has really gone downhill lately. Sibs say that it hasn't and that she is just fine and for me to stay out of it they are handling it. I am afraid the police will come knocking at my door saying I am neglecting an elderly person. I want to have a welfare check done on her. Who would do the welfare check? Mother lives alone and has dementia. If someone came to the door to do a welfare check, she would tell them to go to H**ll. My hands seem tied, Mother won't listen to me and yells and screams at me. Sibs say things are just fine and they are not. I surely don't want to get in trouble with the cops. Can't give you anymore specific info because sibs may be on this site as well. And they are always right. What should I do?