My brothers wanted me moved out in 2 weeks. When it was impossible for my mother to care for my dad by herself (he had parkinsons) I moved from another state to help her. After he passed my mother asked me to stay with her at least for a while. I had a very minimal part time job outside the home. I was given room and board by parents. Then my mom was diagnosed with Merkel cell carcinoma 3 years ago and underwent radiation therapy, chemo and immunotherapy. It was a long, rough 3 years. Now my brothers, 2 who live in town and one out of state, did no caregiving until the last few days of her life, want me moved out of house in 2 weeks. My eldest bro is executor. The house will be sold and split equally. I haven't even caught my breath from the sleepless last weeks of moms life, let alone grieve. I'm in shock that they want me out so quickly. Must I leave so soon. If I stay longer must I pay utilities and or rent? I'm just too pooped to move.
Make them go through the legal steps to evict you. That will buy a little time.
Your parents should have paid you for your caregiving services. Nothing can be done about that now. But Brothers should certainly show consideration for you.
Start looking immediately for another place to live, with a short-term or month-to-month lease. Don't make any long-term decisions so soon. I hope things settle down for you soon, and you find peace in your new situation.
Yes, it is likely the house can go on the market before the estate closes. I would recommend that you check for a Legal Services Corporation(LSC) agency in your area for free legal advice. LSC is a government agency that funds legal agencies in all US states for low-income folks. And/or does your Mom's estate have an attorney assisting your brother? Sometimes it's easier to speak with the impartial attorney involved than speaking to a sibling - no underlying emotional feelings.
GA is correct in that your living there while the home is on the market would actually be an asset. And....the bottom line is that there are legal protections for you....the key here is negotiation.
Good luck!
I would think written notice is minimal - typically someone can't be evicted based on verbal notice.
Then do some research of the county bar association to see if there are any pro bono attorneys who might be able to help you at least get the notice to which you're entitled.
I would also remind the brothers that a vacant house is not appealing to the homeowner's insurance carrier, and once you're gone, they'll have to notify the carrier and can expect to pay more money for insurance coverage while they house is being prepared for sale and sitting on the market - for who knows how long.
You could also notify the carrier yourself once you've moved.