My Mom was in the hospital with a very bad infection (on her arm) just 6 months after my Dad passing away. While in a nursing home for recovery, she started talking about Dad being back. She did have an UTI, and was treated and seemed better. Day to day she was fine to talk to, knew the day, month and all. Come evening time, she would talk about him having a young girlfriend, and alot of other detailed comments.
She has called the police, saying he is missing. Oh my goodness.... I don't let her drive. Keep her phone from her when possible. She gets angry with me, for not helping her find him. And she says she is NOT crazy. I am searching now for someone to take her to.
My Dad's side of the family don't come around any more, no one can handle the things she says about him. (we are still all grieving) I feel like I am doing this alone with a young, brave son to keep me sane.
Any advice would be great. Prayers would be appreciated!!
Blessings to you!
It is a heartbreaking thing to deal with. Hopefully, her doctor can help. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
This is very hard. You want to acknowledge her reality, how she view things, but you don't want to agree with her that your deceased father is cheating on her!
Definitely follow Jessie's advice and provide the doctor a description of what is going on.