A friend's mom (80 yrs old) has 54 (year old) son living with her in her assisted living apartment. He works periodically but is basically homeless without her. She feels bad but he is verbally abusive and has history of drug abuse. How does family get him out
I would be hesitant, frankly. The nuclear option would be to declare mom incompetent and evict him. I think that's a poor move. It's liable to produce very unpleasant unintended consequences.