This is the continuation of the "insane" saga of my mother at the nursing home. My mother has entered into a relationship with a man at the nursing home. He's put himself in charge of my mother etc. I can't reason with her anymore. And now, he's calling me constantly on my cell phone. We've already had a dicussion with the nursing home and the state ombudsman. Didn't get us anywhere. My next step is to get a restraining order against this man. Any of you encounter these issues? Any input would be helpful.
See if you can speak -- calmly -- with any of his relatives. Another option would be to speak with the lovebirds in the presence of NH staff. At least try to get him to stop calling. A restraining order would mean that staff will have to be on the lookout, and they won't be happy; Mom won't be happy; and so will you.