I can care for easier at my house. But can I sleep in my bed again? My Mother has only a couple weeks left and my sister and I want to give her all the love and care while we still can. My husband has agreed to bring her home and give her our bed. I think I will be ok with it. Has anyone else had this experience and been able to sleep soundly in their bed again after knowing your mother passed away in it?
God bless you for giving your mom AND yourself this final gift. You will always be glad.
As to your sleeping in it again, I think you could think of it as the means by which you were able to express to her your love during these last days. I think it could have a special meaning after that.
When I had to stay in my sister's home for some time after she died, I slept in her bed. It made me feel closer to her. But, after all, it's just a bed. It's the bonds that are important.
But I am sorry to learn that your mother is terminally ill and wish you and your family peace and solace during these times.