After 2 months in a NCF my mother is coming home. I'm somewhat happy but at the same time I don't want to deal with it. She is not that bad off except for mobility issues and a little foregetfulness. She begged me to come home and just for peace it's going to happen. She wants to sell her home and move close by. She told me this in the NCF and I don't believe her. I'm thinking once she goes home everything will change and she will want to remain. I don't want to fight with her she has stressed me out so much with her demanding ways. I don't want the responsibility of trying to keep up with her house. It's big and needs some repairs. It felt good not to run up and down for two months for her.
She needs supervision because she is a fall risk. I cannot get 24 hr supervision and cannot move her in. My house is full. I have to put everything in God's hands for the rest of things I cannot do. I don't think she is a candidate for assisted living. Any suggestions?