I take care of my mother which is so hard on me. She's had 2 strokes and can barely walk or talk. She just shuffles and mumbles. I feel like I'm going crazy. I don't want to put her in a nursing home. For the past 2 weeks she keeps saying she is dead. Been sleeping quite a bit in her chair. Other times she seems halfway alert. It keeps going back & forth. Is this the beginning of the end for her. She is 90 years old. I'm not good at wording this. Is there anyone that can help me. Should I call her Doctor and see if a home health person can come check her out. All my siblings live up north, how convenient. I don't know who to call for help. Would appreciate any help I can get. Just don't know where to start..
If you are finding that it has become much more difficult to help Mom at home, it is time to bring in some outside help if Mom can budget that cost and the biggee, if Mom will accept outside help.
Yes, 90+ year olds will sleep a lot. They have lived a long long life and are tired. My parents [also were in their 90's] would do a lot of cat napping during the day. Dad was on a walker, Mom on a cane as she refused to use a walker as she felt it made her look old.... seriously?
Or we just need to let nature take its course. There could be a time when 911 is needed, hospitalization, maybe rehab [yes, even at 90], then evaluation to see if she could go home or stay in long-term-care. I had to do that with my own Mom.