Somehow, I can't make the transition from general doctor to a specialized doctor or facility. Her short term memory is gone, long term great. She gets angry if anyone points out that this is happening. It is therefor difficult to get treatment for this because she thinks nothing is wrong. Even if I told her, she would think I am plotting against her. This is not my mother. She does not trust advice. Does not listen. An MRI showed Vascular dementia, but required a follow-up which she does not want to have. I do not know how to deal with her and become so frustrated that we end up fighting. She is obsessed with her body, reading medical books all the time, and her childood, going over the same stories over and over and over again. What to do.