We used to talk several times a day. See one another almost everyday ... having lunch together most days.
NOW he has stopped communicating with me ... suggests I have stolen things from him, including a car he gifted to me with many presents.
I have learned not to challenge him, nor argue etc... now no communication and of course no physical contact due to virus. I go from being broken hearted to acceptance then devastated.
He was diagnosed with early cognitive decline In October 2019?
He has a second wife a caregiver five days a week, so I do know he is well cared for just not by me.
So now what ?:(
Our loved ones with dementia are suffering a lot more with this corona shut down, causing a lot more confusion for them.
I agree with Ahmijoy: maybe cut back on your calls for a while and make them briefer. You miss how it was; sorry, it can't be like it was; I know this feeling, it hurts. Try not to call near sleep, naps, or eating times or times he's watching his fave show/s. These things are at the top of their list to immediately satisfy and not be interrupted; they get irritable and more confused when any of those things are interrupted or delayed.
Hopefully, you have a good relationship with the 2nd wife and/or caregiver. If not, that's ok, too. Just make some adjustments to how and when you communicate with him.
This experience is so sad and the support is very much appreciated .
Suddenly I have a new perspective.
with gratitude.
best
Daisy27