His symptoms come and go but he now sneaks and pees in a cup and pours it in kitchen sink. Totally disgusted by this. He is capable of walking to bathroom and we also bought him adult underwear for his off days. Any suggestions to stop this behavior?
Try getting Dad a urinal (actually looks like a pitcher) and a bucket or show him how to dump the urinal in the toilet if he will, or in the bucket. He may have some delusions about the bathroom/toilet. Other than that, the only other thing you can do is supervise him constantly and when he’s about to “go”, hand him his “cup” (urinal). And get some bleach for your sinks. 😊
I'm hoping that others who have had more experience with keeping elders with dementia at home will have some suggestions, but other than not giving him access to any cups, this is going to be really hard.