I tried in home care, my husband didn't like that but it worked for several months until aid became unreliable. Then I started daycare. He refuses to get out of bed many mornings. This is when I schedule my Dr appts and just some relaxation time. Please help with ideas to get him moving. He's moderate stage Alzheimer's and very stubborn. I can't leave him at all anymore. I just called another agency to get help. They said our county is a "void" I dont get it. I'm trying got to find a hous in 55+ community in another county where I can an get more help. I'm drowning under responsibility
People truly have no idea what it’s like to be a caregiver. It’s draining. Hard to schedule time for things we need for ourselves like our doctor appointments. It only makes it more difficult for you if you can’t get DH to get out of bed. So sorry you are going through this.