My mother -n-law mobility is slow and can be a risk fall. My husband and I take care of her and we both work long hours. We have to stop what we are doing and come home to feed her. It makes me feel like we are not satisfying her needs. We both are pretty tired and her other children does not want to keep her at their home. What should I do?
P.S. I worked so hard to get my MIL into a really great place on Medicaid and once there she chose to never get out of bed. Literally. Even though she could. Now, 3 years later, she can't get out of bed. So sad but nothing to be done about it.
I don't think this helps, but perhaps only to know that it is very common.