My uncle is of sound mind but elderly.When he was living at home I was making the decisions and because he was usually right there all the medical personnel were ok with it. Now that he is in the nursing home they question everything and because he's hard to understand they hear what they want to hear. How can we make it so they don't ask him unless it's something drastic?
Is he from another country and doesn't understand English well?
Or maybe he doesn't understand the complex information given by doctors of human diseases and conditions?
(Many doctors talk to patients on a "professional level" and many patients don't understand but don't want to say.)
Maybe he's looking to you for reinforcement on his decisions.
Well, whatever the case, since he is of sound mind, legally the doctors HAVE to ask him first. He can have them contact you but the final decision is his. I doubt if any doctor is going to like "Do whatever my niece says." You will probably need to go to the facility and talk with him. They are going to want to hear his decision out of his mouth. It's just how the legal system is set up.
It's called HIPAA (Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996) is United States legislation that provides data privacy and security provisions for safeguarding medical information.