My mother was transferred from hospital after fall, pubic pelvic fracture. 2/13/2020. She was very active, going to Bingo almost every night, shopping. Everyday went somewhere was not in wheelchair chair. Very independent. She only need help with showering and getting dressed..Her health is degenerating. I need to take her out. Dr said 2 months, with this COVID 19, can they stop me? PLEASE HELP...shes diminishing...getting depressed, talking bout giving up. PLEASE HELP.
Something else you can do is ask for a care conference, via video, or by telephone, and ask specifically what plans there are to address her degenerating health. They have a plan, or if not yet, should be able to develop one.
I assume you're prevented from visiting with her. Can you call her? I'm assuming you also live near the rehab site and are planning to take her home with you? Are you prepared to handle rehab if you do? Do you have a home care company lined up to come and provide nursing, PT, OT and perhaps aide or social work care?
Think carefully about your options if you are able to get her released, but I do think that she'll be less exposed if she's out of there.
Would your mother need financial assistance (Medicaid) if she were to stay? If not, it might be that the place has an eye on your mother's finances and plan to exploit them. That happened to us when my mother had a fracture. Eventually we figured out what was going on and pulled Mom out before they drained her finances. And we did get her ortho's advice before doing so.
Please keep us updated on your progress, especially the response of the admins on your mother's deterioration. And best wishes to work out an acceptable solution for you and your mother.
I would talk to the DON. Tell her Mom lives with you. Both you and husband are home bound at this point. Your house has been disinfected. Neither Mom nor you can afford the cost of keeping her in the rehab facility indefinitely. (even if she can, cry poor) Could she and you be tested for the virus and if negative, you will take her home. That all precautions will be taken to keep her safe. This means, no one but u coming and going from your house.
In my opinion, they cannot guarantee that a staff member will not bring it into the facility. So Mom is no safer with them than you.