I am the sold caregiver for my aunt and uncle this include bath, feeding, clothing, cooking, shopping paying there bill and mines nd the list goes on and on. I had quit my job to care for them, i am using my saving to help them. I am 54 yrs old an at the rate i am going i will not have anything left when i am older. i keep help i don't know how to go about getting it, i dont get any rest and am always tired.
You quit your job to take care of them. How long can you survive without income?
I think that you are absolutely right to try to project where this path is leading. Where will you be 1 year from now? 2 years? etc.
What if they last into their hundreds?
You also need to consider that our current government-paid nursing home system is unsustainable. Meaning that if 20 years from now you need help from the gov, there might not be anything left.
Bottom line is that whether you know it or not, in helping out your relatives as you described, you could be locking yourself into a non-recoverable personal disaster. Maybe you'll decide that it is the right course, but at least you should visualize the most likely consequences.
Finally, "I don't get any rest and am always tired" sounds like you are undermining your health too.
Is there any way to get others to help out during working hours and find another job?
No point in allowing your life to fall by the wayside in your care of them.