I'm unable to get info on his disability,retirement,pension etc from where he worked and receiving a monthly check I called GM to see if my father on pension or other benifits they said they could not share that info. both mother and father have cancer,alziemer and demanssia.my father does not remember anything. they have no money for a lawyer should I file a power of attorney or a guardianship? how can I get free help for advice and paper work.I do not have much time my dad getting worse daily. please help thanks n lee
Now is the time for you to have serious talks with your parents so you know exactly what they want you to do for them as well as what they don't want.
Since your dad is getting worse rapidly ask his doctor if he is eligible for hospice care, or call a hospice organization directly. That can be a great comfort to Dad and to you and Mom.