I have both POA and MPOA for a parent who has dementia & continues to live alone. Am I responsible for arranging for EVERYTHING related to Mom's care? For example, ensuring house is stocked with groceries & paper products (toilet paper, etc.) , parent has clean clothing (not soiled or ripped undergarments), house is cleaned, medications are timely renewed, doctor appointments, arranging for aides, etc. I don't think so & want my other siblings to do their share. I also don't think they should be paid to do it, even though Mom has plenty of money, as it might be needed in the future as her care needs increase. Yes, they come down 2-3 days a week & are paid to be there with Mom; however, I don't think they should be paid anything extra for grocery shopping or fixing a sink leak or trimming bushes or anything else like that. Am I out of line or are they?
FYI: Her care needs are increasing and the money is being used for that now..