She also told the Assisted Living that I am not allowed in his room nor can I take
Him out for dinner, etc. he calls me every day and wants me to visit and it's hard. There is no reason for these rules other than control. He also told me he had X-ray's yesterday but didn't know why (dementia) and the facility wouldn't tell me what happened. What can I do?
As for not being allowed to see your Dad I find that unacceptable, especially since he misses you. I agree you should talk to the facility and maybe his case manager.
Best of luck.
I'm sorry you are going through this. Maybe if you just go over to the assisted living you would be able to visit. Beyond that, try calling Elder Services in the town and ask what suggestion they might have. Wishing you luck. Take care.