I get the feeling my mom is jealous of my (relative) youth and the good life I have built for myself (which includes working more than 40 hours a week in my small business). She is a self-destructive alcoholic who has trashed her health. She lives down the street from me. I am starting to get the feeling she is taking some pleasure from slowly drowning me in her problems and trying to make my life come apart. Anyone else ever get this feeling from a parent?