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IF there is a chance that this will be mentioned at the next family gathering then yes you should tell her. If this is a subject that is not spoken of then there is no reason to tell her. If she has friends that might find out about the death and tell her then yes you should tell her. If she talks about him however then again yes you should tell her.
If your brother had no beef with you why did he not contact you?
Did your brother have a family? How do you or would you feel if you extended the family? Your mom may have grandkids that she would want to know.

IF your mom had dementia my answer would be completely different. I would say no you do not tell her.
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Ginger9909 Apr 2021
Thanks! There is no one around anymore other then me, my brother and his family and no family gatherings at all. All of my moms friends have died, including everyone on her side of her immediate family years ago. She lives alone in a small duplex home and my oldest brother lives about 15 minutes away. I haven’t even told him yet. Yes my brother was married at the time with two young girls. Those girls too had nothing to do with us. When he left the state at some point got remarried from what we read. The obituary didn’t mention any kids just the surviving wife which of course we don’t know
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